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mercredi 7 août 2019

Note to Brides and Grooms: Don't Forget to Buy Each Other a Present








 If you're reading this story, you're probably one of the approximately 825,000 couples who've just gotten engaged since Thanksgiving and are now planning your wedding. So here's perhaps the single most important reminder -- and grooms do seem to need more reminding than brides -- anyone will offer: Tradition holds that you both exchange wedding presents.
(Yes, grooms, even though you just bought her an engagement ring.)
But what to get?
"Gifts should come from the heart," says WeddingChannel.
Well, yeah. But that still leaves a lot of room for error. So here's some tips to keep in mind whether you two opt for some type of jewelry -- the traditional and most popular choice -- or something else.
* Practicality can wait. Etiquette dictates that gifts be exchanged at one of three times: the night before the wedding, the morning of the ceremony, or right before you leave on your honeymoon. So you could see where this has the potential for becoming a bigger disaster than Chernobyl if the groom's idea of "practical" is, say, a toaster.
* Being uniquely personal is appreciated. One of the best examples we've heard of is a guy who had a photographer secretly capture the moment he proposed in New York's Central Park, and then presented the results to his bride on the day of their wedding.
"So cute!" read a typical blog post.
The downside, of course, is that pulling it off requires imagination and -- in this instance -- a lot of advance planning.
* Jewelry can be "traditional" without being boring. Case in point: the very hot Argyle diamondstrend (diamondswithastory), which fulfills the quest of even the most eco-minded couples for diamond fashion jewelry since the stones are produced in a socially and environmentally responsible way from the Argyle mine in Australia. And the diamonds, themselves, come in gorgeous neutral shades like champagne, cognac, silver and gray.
"If your bride likes something different from what all her friends have," says jewelry and style expert Michael O'Connor, "then the Argyle diamond bracelets, necklaces and earrings are perfect and available at many retailers across the country -- I've even spotted women at gyms wearing the diamond pendants. And the cufflinks for men are truly elegant."
Perhaps because prices start at as little as a few hundred dollars for some pieces, O'Connor calls them "the ideal gateway gift." Meaning, you can use other occasions -- think birthdays and anniversaries -- to add to your collection through the years.
Yes, brides and grooms, you'll soon have to start planning your next milestone together.

These plus-size Asian women posed in ball gowns for a breathtaking viral photo shoot to make a statement about representation

These plus-size Asian women posed in ball gowns for a breathtaking viral photo shoot to make a statement about representation


Michelle Elman, an author and body-confidence coach, teamed up with photographer Linda Blacker to create photos that would show "a small sample of the diversity within Asia," according to Elman's Instagram page. The two shared the images on July 28, and have since received more than 34,000 likes collectively on Instagram.
INSIDER recently spoke with Elman about the photos, as well as the importance of representing diverse groups of people in the media. See the striking portraits below.
Michelle Elman and Linda Blacker worked together to create the body-positive images
Speaking to INSIDER, Elman said Blacker reached out to her after she spoke about "plus-size Asian representation" online in March.
"We had previously worked together, and she said she would love to work on something to bring awareness to the issue," Elman said of Blacker.
The two then created the concept for their photos. On Instagram, Blacker said the images were meant to show that "plus-size Asians exist and deserve representation," though they are "so often excluded from mainstream media."
All six models, not including Elman, were discovered on social media.Linda Blacker and Michelle Elman
Elman agrees, telling INSIDER that the photos are the "perfect way to show the fashion industry what they're missing." She also said the images can "practically demonstrate that Asian women are just as beautiful and fashionable as any other race."
"We deserve to be included," Elman said, speaking of herself and other Asian women.
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Each model seen in the photos was found on social media
Rather than working with a modeling agency, Elman says she found all six models on Instagram and Twitter.
"Bishamber and Kat are both plus-size bloggers in the community who I've been following for a while," Elman said of two models.
"Everyone else followed me, and I found them via Instagram and Twitter," she said. "I included everyone who reached out, and it was just a matter of logistics — who was free on the day that the studio was booked."
Models were specifically chosen to be diverse.Linda Blacker and Michelle Elman
From left to right, the models standing up are: Vanessa Sison, Mina Kumari, Michelle Elman, Kat Henry, and Bishamber Das. Sha-La-Knee is sitting on the left, and Sim is sitting on the right.
"We tried to make sure the models were as inclusive as possible," Elman said. "We wanted there to be a diverse range of sizes, ages, and also in terms of skin color."
Everything from the models' dresses to their makeup were carefully considered
According to Elman, she knew she wanted the models to wear "high-end, formal maxi dresses," but "the rest was all Linda's styling."
Elman also made sure that the photoshoot was diverse both on camera and behind the scenes — her and Blacker hired makeup artists Hannah Shaikh and Umber Ghauri for the event.
"Hannah and Umber are both so talented," Elman said. "I think it's really important to also highlight that most sets, behind the scenes, are also not diverse."
Elman reiterated her statement in her original Instagram post.
"Thank you also to Umber Ghauri and Hannah Shaikh for the incredible makeup!" Elman said on Instagram. "It felt so complete to have the makeup artists also be Asian. We need just as much diversity behind the scenes on shoots as well!"
Elman told INSIDER that she's received an 'overwhelmingly positive' reaction in response to the photos
"We've had a lot of people say that while this was something they've never noticed, they've since realized that most diverse photoshoots don't include Asian people at all," Elman told INSIDER.
"I think we need to broaden diversity so that tokenism isn't taking place," she continued. "We need to be actively noticing when an entire continent is not represented."

Man with boat full of bikini-clad women put on 'quite a show' at riverside restaurant, police say

Man with boat full of bikini-clad women put on 'quite a show' at riverside restaurant, police say


Police in Wyandotte, Mich., arrested a 65-year-old man after he and six bikini-clad women reportedly put on “quite a show” outside an upscale riverside restaurant.
The incident took place outside of The Waterfront restaurant, on the Detroit River, on Sunday.
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“A 65-year-old Detroit man was arrested following what sounds like quite a show at one of our upscale restaurants,” police confirmed on Facebook. “The man pulled his boat up to the restaurant where he and six bikini clad women, all half his age, were refused service and asked to leave by staff because they were all reportedly too intoxicated.”
Instead of leaving, however, the man and his bevy of bikini-clad passengers “hurled insults and threats toward random people and staff” before cranking up the boat’s radio to “intentionally annoy everyone.”
Police say the man and his bevy of bikini-clad passengers “hurled insults and threats toward random people and staff” before cranking up the boat’s radio to “intentionally annoy everyone.” (iStock)
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A restaurant manager who spoke with the Detroit News said he then called police on the “disrespectful, drunk people.”
Police arrived and asked the suspect to exit his boat, at which point he “took off down the river, waving his middle finger at us,” police wrote.
The 65-year-old was eventually cornered near the Ambassador Bridge, where he was arrested.
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It is unclear what charges the man faces. A spokesperson for the Wyandotte Police Department was not immediately available to comment further.

9 women sued Dartmouth for ignoring sexual misconduct. The college settled for $14M

9 women sued Dartmouth for ignoring sexual misconduct. The college settled for $14M


Olympic figure skater Ashley Wagner talks about the reasons she felt it was time for her to come forward about her sexual assault. Hannah Gaber, USA TODAY
CONCORD, N.H. — Dartmouth College announced Tuesday that it has settled a contentious federal lawsuit with nine women who sued the school over allegations that it ignored years of harassment and assault by former psychology department professors.
In a statement Tuesday, both sides say the settlement includes $14 million for students who can prove they suffered abuse and can meet other conditions defined in the class action lawsuit, as well as several initiatives by the college "to rectify current problems and prevent future issues."
"These current and former students not only brought to light the completely unacceptable behavior of these three individuals in one department, but, through their courage, also led to our launching_and now with their help, expanding_initiatives to address issues of sexual misconduct and power imbalances here, and we hope over time on other campuses as well," Dartmouth Provost Joseph Helble, who participated in three days of discussions with the women, said in a statement.
A dozen sexual assaults reported: And Ohio University students are ‘fed up’

In this Wednesday, Nov. 14, 2018 file photo, from left back row, Annemarie Brown, Andrea Courtney, and Marissa Evans, and from left front row, Sasha Brietzke, Vassiki Chauhan, Kristina Rapuano, pose in New York. (Photo: Mary Altaffer, AP)
The settlement is still subject to approval by a U.S. District Court judge in Concord.
In their lawsuit the women, who were graduates or undergraduates at the college, alleged that professors William Kelley, Paul Whalen and Todd Heatherton harassed and touched women inappropriately, often while out partying at bars or at their homes where one hosted hot tub parties.
Kelley and Whalen are each accused of assaulting a student after a night of drinking, attempting to seduce women under their supervision and punishing those who rebuffed their advances in the Department of Psychological and Brain Science.
"We are satisfied to have reached an agreement with Dartmouth College, and are encouraged by our humble contribution to bringing restorative justice to a body of Dartmouth students beyond the named plaintiffs," the plaintiffs, three of whom were anonymous, said in a statement. "We remain committed to bringing survivor perspectives and community voices to the forefront of the conversation surrounding campus climate."
Dartmouth said it was unaware of the allegations until it was alerted by scores of female students.
In October 2017, Dartmouth launched an investigation into the three professors. It never released the findings and was preparing to fire all three. Heatherton retired and the two other professors resigned.
Whalen and Kelley could not be reached for comment, and it is unclear if they have attorneys. Heatherton has apologized for acting inappropriately at conferences but said, through a lawyer, that he never socialized or had sexual relations with students. He also said he wasn't aware of the behavior of the two others and would not have condoned it.
The allegations in the lawsuit sparked heated debate at Dartmouth and prompted dozens of alumni to demand greater transparency and accountability in the way the school handles sexual abuse claims. Some were demanding the resignation of the college president while others the withholding of donations.

Dartmouth College has positioned itself as a leader in a growing movement to eradicate sexual assault on campuses nationwide. (Photo: Alison A. Redlich, for USA TODAY)
The school responded this year with a range of promised reforms including an outside review of all academic departments, a revisal of its sexual misconduct policy and other measures meant to create an environment free from "the abuse of power."
President Philip Hanlon also said the college plans to create a single sexual misconduct policy and include processes for dealing with violations. It also will start mandatory training on the federal law barring gender discrimination, put more resources into mental health and more.
"Providing a safe, secure, and supportive environment is critical to our educational objectives; and, with the help of these strong and creative women, we will get there," Helble said in response to the settlement.
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mardi 6 août 2019

How Female Fandom Power Helped Give Rise To Girl Groups Once More

BLACKPINK - 'Kill This Love' M/V






The popularity of girl groups has been growing by the day in recent days, and several professionals state that this can be partly explained by the increase in female fans within girl group fandoms.
BLACKPINK, Red Velvet, IZ*ONE, and more are opening the heyday of girl groups with strong fandoms behind their backs. Girls’ Generation, KARA, Wonder Girls and other girl groups stood out from late 2000 to early 2010, but it had been hard to find such popular girl groups for a while since then.
The recent achievements of girl groups can be confirmed by figures. BLACKPINK, Red Velvet, and IZ*ONE surpassed their personal sales records with the albums they released in first half of this year. Album sales can also be an indication of the fandom’s strength, and the increase in sales can be attributed to the increase of female girl group fans who purchase albums more actively.
Girl groups are currently on the rise in the overseas markets. BLACKPINK revealed their strong presence through “Kill This Love,” which was released in April and ranked in Billboard’s “Hot 100” and “Billboard 200” for four consecutive weeks. In April, they were the first K-pop girl group to stage a show at Coachella. TWICE and Red Velvet also recently completed their North American tour successfully, and with new girl group ITZY also drawing attention, K-pop girl groups’ performances on the global stage are just beginning.
According to an analysis of Gaon Chart album sales, BLACKPINK, Red Velvet, and IZ*ONE broke their own records in first half of this year. Red Velvet’s first mini album “Ice Cream Cake,” released in 2015, had accumulated 86,000 sales in total until the first half of this year, but their latest album “The ReVe Festival: Day 1,” released in June, sold more than 180,000 copies already. BLACKPINK sold 275,932 copies of their album “Kill This Love,” which was released in April, surpassing the accumulated sales of 267,083 until the first half of this year with “Square Up,” released last year. Sales of IZ*ONE’s “HEART*IZ,” which was released in April this year, exceeded those of their previous release “COLOR*IZ” by 20,000 units.
Such records were largely influenced by female girl group fans, who had not been highlighted much until now. K-pop web magazine Idology’s editor-in-chief shared, “Female fans have been around since Girls’ Generation, but they were overshadowed, and now their presence has been magnified, influencing the popularity [of girl groups]. In recent years, female fans’ activities have become very active, and album sales have increased a lot as more projects to satisfy these fans began to become more prominent. One female fan who attended Red Velvet’s fan meeting said, ‘I didn’t realize it at the concert, but I was surprised that there were more female fans than male fans at the fan meeting.'”
Another female fan of a different girl group shared, “I’ve always liked various boy bands, but I’ve often been disappointed by the members’ incidents and accidents,” adding that girl group members, on the other hand, seem less likely to make fans suffer as they are less often embroiled in scandals.” In fact, sources from similar industries say that female fans are more loyal than male fans and have more purchasing power. Thus, having a strong female fandom, whether it’s a boy group or a girl group, is an indicator of how long the group will last. On top of that, music charts have recently been losing credibility, which could be a factor in the shift of fans’ efforts from music streaming to album purchases, consequently leading to an increase in record sales.
Lee Ki Hoon, an analyst of Hana Financial Investment, commented, “Strong album sales, which is also a fandom indicator, show that girl groups are showing significant profitability.” Like TWICE, who proved that girl groups can also make profit with a strong fandom like boy groups, BLACKPINK, Red Velvet and IZ*ONE are also showing potential.
This year and the previous year, K-pop girl groups have been continuing their overseas tours and appearing on major U.S. television networks. Starting with Seoul in November last year, BLACKPINK has toured a total of 23 cities in four continents—Asia, North America, Europe, and Oceania—performing a total of 32 concerts. Along with this, the music video for “DDU-DU DDU-DU” was a hit, surpassing 900 million views on YouTube for the first time for a K-pop group.
TWICE boasts solid popularity in Japan but has also been active in making inroads into North America recently. TWICE mobilized approximately 41,000 people for their fourth performance on their first tour of the Americas. Red Velvet also held their first North American tour since their debut earlier this year, totaling eight concerts in seven U.S. and Canadian cities. The entire show attracted attention because the tickets sold out completely, and the majority of the audience was filled with locals. Currently, there are variables causing tense relations between South Korea and Japan, but girl group IZ*ONE, which includes Japanese members, has formed a solid fandom in Japan, with their second single topping Japan’s Oricon chart in June.
Lee Tae Kwang, a professor of global communication at Kyunghee University, shared, “The success of K-pop acts go hand in hand with the global trend of pursuing ‘political correctness,’ which aims to eliminate discrimination and hate against the weaker minorities. In the past, male idols who wore skinny jeans and used makeup were viewed negatively, but now they aren’t, and now female Asian idols will be noticed in this trend.”
One critic pointed out, “BTS’s popularity can be interpreted to be a representation of Asians, a minority, which means that female artists can be expected [to be the next popular idols].”
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Who Are The Most Powerful Women In Politics?: The Broadsheet



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Good morning, Broadsheet readers! Kristalina Georgieva is set to take over the IMF, activist investors can be sexist, and we want your input on the most powerful women in politics. Have a productive Monday. 
EVERYONE’S TALKING
– Powerful politicos. Summertime means one thing for Fortune: preparations are underway for our annual Most Powerful Women in Business lists, set to be released in our October issue. 
We’re bringing this up early because we’re trying something new this year. Along with the most powerful women in business, we’ll be identifying some of the most powerful women in politics. Elected officials, candidates for office (there’s a new profile on Tulsi Gabbard, by the way), key behind-the-scenes staffers, big-money donors, powerful lobbyists: we’re considering them all. 
That’s where we want your input, politico Broadsheet readers. Who do you think are the most powerful women in politics? The unprecedented group of women running for the Democratic nomination? The donors shaping the 2020 race and beyond? The lobbyists getting legislation pushed through or killed on the Hill? The female GOPers bucking the retirement trend sweeping the Republican wing of the House of Representatives?
We’ve already identified a few criteria for evaluating candidates. There is, of course, their literal or legislative power. Then, the outsize influence of their ideas (the AOC effect, if you will). For the non-elected officials, their financial influence on American politics. And finally, their expected political trajectory. 
We’d love your input on who should be on this list. You can write with your suggestions to emma.hinchliffe@fortune.com—and stay tuned for the list next month. 
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ALSO IN THE HEADLINES
– Two tragedies. Two mass shootings in less than 24 hours in El Paso, Texas and Dayton, Ohio rocked the U.S. this weekend; the shooting in El Paso that killed 20 is being investigated as a hate crime and act of domestic terrorism. The suspect’s manifesto was posted on 8chan, a platform known as a home for racist, anti-Semitic, misogynist, and extremist content. The El Paso shooting was the third violent act this year to be linked to the site. Web firm Cloudflare just announced it would drop support for the messaging forum, which ultimately could force 8chan offline.
– Christine to Kristalina. The EU chose Kristalina Georgieva as the nominee to replace Christine Lagarde as head of the International Monetary Fund. The Bulgarian CEO of the World Bank won 56% support of the voting bloc’s 28 member states over Jeroen Dijsselbloem, a former Dutch finance minister. The IMF will need to alter its age restriction requiring candidates to be under 65 when they start the job to accommodate the 65-year-old Georgieva. Financial Times
– Back together. After the “send her back” chants at a rally for President Trump—and criticism of House leadership’s lackluster support for the four freshman congresswomen targeted by the chants—Rep. Ilhan Omar signaled that she and Nancy Pelosi remain on good terms. Omar posted a photo of herself with the House speaker in Ghana with the caption, “@SpeakerPelosi didn’t just make arrangements to send me back, she went back with me.” They pair was with the Congressional Black Caucus on a trip marking the 400th anniversary of American slave trade. CNN
– Activist bias. Are activist investors sexist? The answer, as has been discussed in the past, seems to be yes. Research shows that female CEOs face a 27% chance of being targeted, while men face a less-than-1% chance. The question is coming up yet again in light of activist investor Carl Icahn’s fight over Occidental CEO Vicki Hollub’s Anadarko deal. Wall Street Journal
MOVERS AND SHAKERS: Karuna Rawal of Leo Burnett/Publicis Groupe joins Sustainable Bioproducts as its first CMO. 
IN CASE YOU MISSED IT
– The Fan Bingbing resurgence. Chinese superstar Fan Bingbing gives one of her first interviews since starting her slow comeback following a four-month disappearance and house arrest over a tax scandal. Fan says she is at a crossroads; endorsement deals remain scarce but she moves forward with projects like Jessica Chastain’s 355. She suggests that both she and China’s film industry should “calm down and ruminate.” New York Times
– Opting out. More on changing gender roles and norms around women and work in Japan: this time, it’s marriage. Japanese women are opting out of the institution as expectations of wives fail to catch up to the reality that many women are staying in the workforce. Some women are even posing for solo bridal portraits to commemorate their singlehood. New York Times
– Menopause medicine. A new medical procedure in the U.K. can delay menopause by up to 20 years. The IVF specialists behind the procedure say it could be used to combat some of the symptoms associated with menopause, like osteoporosis and heart conditions. Guardian
– Media men. The former Gawker/Gizmodo Media Group is now G/O Media, taken over in a private equity deal. Reporting on its own owners, this Deadspin story is half media inside baseball; half the tale of a workplace that failed to support or promote women. Forbes.com alum and G/O Media head Jim Spanfeller is alleged to have hired several male former colleagues for business-side leadership roles over qualified women at the company, some of whom were promised the opportunity to interview but never got a chance. Deadspin
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ON MY RADAR
This new Ivanka Trump podcast is the juiciest show of the summer The Cut
The Rookie star Afton Williamson quits due to alleged sexual harassment and racism Vulture
The dark history behind the year’s bestselling debut novel Slate
Athleisure, barre, and kale: the tyranny of the ideal woman Guardian
QUOTE
“If I have served as an instrument for education that Latinas can look any myriad of ways, I’m happy. There’s Cameron Diaz, there’s me, and everything in between.”
–Suits star Gina Torres on being the first Afro-Latina to create, produce, and star in her own show with Pearson

Talbots and O, The Oprah Magazine Join Forces for Capsule Collection to Benefit Dress for Success

For its fourth cobranded collaboration with O, The Oprah Magazine to benefit Dress for Success, Talbots is anchored in the kicked-back “T by Talbots” line.
This year’s cobranded, limited-run collection leans on comfort to remind shoppers about the importance of self-care and to help them keep up appearances while on the go. O and Talbots recruited four active personalities to help spread the word — ABC’s “American Housewife” star Katy Mixon, former Olympian and fitness guru Angela Manuel-Davis, cohost of the Food Network’s “The Kitchen” Katie Lee and actor and musician Amber Riley.
During last month’s three-day “Girls’ Getaway” Holland America-O cruise, the 2,700 guests (of which 60 were men) had first dibs on the five-piece special collection and 30-plus styles from Talbots’ spring line in the O Shop. And Talbots hosted a “Love That!” fashion show where O’s creative director Adam Glassman shared his fashion advice with hundreds of women, styling the capsule collection with Talbots’ spring items. The magazine’s editor at large Gayle King was also on deck for the maiden voyage of Holland America’s “Nieuw Statendam,” as well as 25 “Mag Insiders.” When all was said and done, many cruise-goers headed to shore with three or four Talbots purchases, according to a Talbots spokeswoman. (In total, the O shop had 6,100 units.)
Manuel-Davis, whose many job titles include SoulCycle instructor, was on the high seas with Winfrey, who is known to drop into the instructor’s indoor cycling classes in Los Angeles. Manuel-Davis and her fellow ambassadors are featured in the March issue of O, touting the Dress for Success initiative. Retailing from $60 to $99, a zip-front jacket, sweater, ankle pants, T-shirt and maxi dress are part of the T by Talbots assortment. As in years past, 30 percent of the net proceeds will go to Dress for Success, the nonprofit geared toward helping some get back into the workforce. From Feb. 19 through the end of March, shoppers can buy the collection and/or donate money to the cause. The limited-run items will be sold in Talbots stores, online and via the retailer’s catalogue. Those who want to donate clothing and accessories will be able to do so from Feb. 28 through March 3.
To date, the partnership has raised more than $4 million, amassed more than 15,000 boxes of gently used clothing to help more than 100,000 women. And for the second consecutive year, Talbots will match shoppers’ monetary donations up to $250,000. Talbots is also gearing up for a spring-style shopping party on March 2 at its U.S. stores.